Field notes, frameworks, and the occasional confession. Fifty countries of data; zero geography-blind advice.
A field guide to dating Czech women in Prague and Brno. 44 dates, 16 weeks, beer culture, dark humor, Žižkov vs Old Town, and why the bullshit detector is real.
50.0755,14.4378
A field guide to dating Ukrainian women in Kyiv and Odessa. 45 dates across 2019-2023, before and after the invasion. Apps, costs, galanterie, and curfew dating.
50.4501,30.5234
A field guide to dating Korean women in Seoul and Busan. 48 dates, 13 weeks, apps, costs, the gobaek, MBTI, soju etiquette, and the 100-day rule.
37.5665,126.9780
A field guide to dating Turkish women in Istanbul and Antalya. 61 dates, 23 weeks, namus, çay ritual, lira collapse, Instagram-as-app, and the jealousy engine.
41.0082,28.9784
A field guide to dating Mexican women in CDMX and Guadalajara. 63 dates, 15 weeks, the caballero contract, mezcal culture, Coyoacán, and why ahorita is not a timeline.
19.4326,-99.1332
A field guide to dating Argentine women in Buenos Aires. 66 dates, 15 weeks, chamuyo, blue dollar, telos, the histérica, and the Palermo Soho previa economy.
-34.6037,-58.3816
A field guide to dating Russian women in Moscow and Saint Petersburg. 71 dates, 12 weeks, the muzhik test, Telegram timing, flowers, winter context, and apps after 2022.
55.7558,37.6173
A field guide to dating Hungarian women in Budapest. 73 dates, 45 weeks, 8 years, ruin bars, thermal baths, coconut model, and dating in a city that remembers.
47.4979,19.0402
A field guide to dating Georgian women in Tbilisi and Batumi. 77 dates, 30 weeks, wine culture, the supra, lockdown era, and reading the first no correctly.
41.7151,44.8271
The manifesto. 1,500 first dates, 49 countries, 429 weeks. What patterns held everywhere, what changed at every border, and what I still don't understand.
What confidence means in Colombia vs Japan vs Sweden vs Georgia. How the same trait gets you a second date in one country and rejected in another.
When being foreign helps in dating and when it hurts. Data from 1,500 dates across 49 countries on the foreigner premium, saturation, and exoticism.
What happens when a foreigner proposes to split the bill in Medellín. Payment as signal, te invito as contract, and why $9 can cost you everything.
6.2442,-75.5812
Why the window between meeting and dating is 72 hours in Seoul, a week in Bogotá, and what happens when you get it wrong. Data from 48 Korean dates.
37.5665,126.9780
A field guide to dating Filipino women in Manila and Cebu. 39 dates, 9 weeks, apps, costs, and why patience is the only currency that works.
14.5995,120.9842
A field guide to dating Thai women in Bangkok, Chiang Mai, and Phuket. 91 dates, 16 weeks, apps, costs, cultural rules, and the smile economy.
13.7563,100.5018
A field guide to dating Colombian women across Bogotá, Medellín, Cali, and Cartagena. 141 dates, 29 weeks, apps, costs, and the architecture of warmth.
4.7110,-74.0721
112 first dates across Rio, São Paulo, Belo Horizonte, Salvador. What thermal inflation means, which apps work, and why your European escalation model will fail.
23.5505° S, 46.6333° W
87 dates across 17 weeks in Tokyo, Osaka, and Kyoto. A field guide to tatemae, LINE, the last train, love hotels, and the silence that means everything.
35.6762° N, 139.6503° E
Brazilian warmth is real. The access it implies is manufactured. 47 dates across 5 cities decoded the system most foreigners never see.
22.9068° S, 43.1729° W
Colombian warmth is what she uses to maintain distance. 73 dates across 6 cities. The system most foreigners never decode.
4.7110° N, 74.0721° W